Guided, a garden, three affirmations. Music underneath
Nothing gets built in this one. You walk round a garden finding the strengths that were already growing in it.
About 14 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice.
Moss in the shade is your kindness, the sort you give without needing it noticed. The old tree in the middle is your patience. The still pool is your empathy. A single wildflower between the stones, not the biggest or the loudest but bravely open, is your courage. At each one you find a real moment from this week.
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Thank you for sitting with me.
Steven
Who this is for
The days when you are certain you have nothing much to offer.
Nothing gets built in this one. You walk round a garden finding what was already growing in it, which is a rather different job from working on yourself.
What happens in this meditation
You settle the body, scan for anywhere still holding on, then step through a small gate into your own garden.
Moss in the shade is your kindness, the sort you give without needing it noticed. The old tree in the middle, deep rooted and through many seasons, is your patience. The still pool reflecting the sky is your empathy, the ability to hold space without judging.
And a single wildflower between the stones, not the biggest or the loudest but bravely open, is your courage.
At each one you find a real moment from this week. Then three lines, hand on the heart. My kindness is my strength. My patience is my power. My empathy is my gift.
How to get the most from it
Fourteen minutes, and the work is in the remembering rather than the picturing.
Find an actual moment at each stop, however small. A generic yes I am kind does nothing. A specific Tuesday afternoon does.
Simply visiting the garden is how you tend it. There is nothing to plant.
Questions people ask
What if I cannot think of a moment?
Go smaller than you are going. Letting somebody out at a junction counts. Not saying the sharp thing counts. The bar is far lower than you are setting it.
Is this not just telling myself I am wonderful?
It is not. You are being asked for evidence at every stop, which is the opposite of an affirmation you do not believe.
Are those four the only strengths?
No, they are the four with a place in the garden. Compassion, humour, the ability to listen, all of it is in there. Those four just have somewhere to stand.
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The companion talk
The Stillness in the Storms episode that goes with this meditation.