Gratitude before the day gets hold of you. Four rounds of it: your body, your people, your place, and the things that happened to you.
About 11 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice. Perfect for the morning.
You thank your heart for keeping going and your legs for carrying you. Then the faces, pets included, and the roof over you. Last, the experiences, the welcome ones and the ones you would not have chosen. I finish on the kettle, because nobody notices the kettle until the morning it stops working.
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Thank you for sitting with me.
Steven
Who this is for
You want to start the day somewhere other than the to do list.
Most gratitude practices ask for three things and leave you rummaging. This one gives you four categories and walks you through them, which takes the searching out of it.
What happens in this meditation
Your body first. Thank you heart for keeping me alive. Thank you legs for carrying me. Whatever it does all day without being asked.
Then your people. Faces one at a time, pets included, and people from the past count.
Then your places. The house, the room, the bit of coast or countryside you go to when you need it.
Then your experiences, and this is the one with weight in it. The good ones and the ones you would never have chosen, both of which made you who you are.
It ends looking ahead at today, and on the kettle, because nobody notices the kettle until the morning it stops working.
How to get the most from it
Eleven minutes, first thing, before anything has had a chance to go wrong.
Sit up. Alert and relaxed rather than half asleep.
Say the words in your head with the name in them. Thank you, and then the actual person. It lands differently from thinking about them in general.
Questions people ask
How is this different from a gratitude list?
The categories. Being asked for your body, then your people, then your place, then your experiences stops you writing the same three things every morning without feeling them.
Can I be grateful for something I would not wish on anybody?
You can be grateful for what it built without being glad it happened. Those are two different things, and the second one is not being asked of you.
Does it have to be the morning?
It is written for the morning and it works whenever. If today has already been long, doing it in the evening is a decent way to put it down.
Listen together
The companion talk
The Stillness in the Storms episode that goes with this meditation.