Meditation 49 · 7 February 2024 · 11:49

Morning: Confidence and Self Belief Meditation

You stand in front of a mirror and the person looking back is the confident version. Not a stranger, just you with the volume up.

Subject: Morning

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Inner Peace Meditations · Meditation 49

Length11:49
SubjectMorning
Best timeThe morning of a day you feel small
PositionChair or cushion, seated
StyleGuided, a mirror, five affirmations, three to carry. Music underneath

You stand in front of a mirror and the person looking back is the confident version. Not a stranger, just you with the volume up.

About 12 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice. Perfect for the morning.

Notice the posture, notice what the eyes are doing. Then the lines, and you have to mean them. I believe in my abilities and decisions. I am worthy of respect and acceptance. Challenges are opportunities for growth. Confidence is not something we build from nothing. It is already in there being ignored.

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Thank you for sitting with me.

Steven

Who this is for

Mornings where you are about to go and do something you do not feel up to.

You stand in front of a mirror and the person looking back is the confident version. Not a stranger, just you with the volume up.

What happens in this meditation

A new day, a fresh canvas, and you have the power to paint your own story. Then breath and body, and you feel the weight of yourself grounding you.

Then the mirror. Notice the posture. Notice what the eyes are doing. Notice the small, settled smile of somebody quietly proud of themselves.

Then the lines, said while holding that image, and you have to mean them. I am capable and strong. I believe in my abilities and decisions. I am worthy of respect and acceptance. Challenges are opportunities for growth.

Then breathing in confidence and breathing out whatever is holding you back.

Three to take with you. May I be confident. May I trust in myself. May I embrace the day with positivity.

How to get the most from it

Twelve minutes, sitting up, first thing.

Do it five or six mornings in a row rather than once. Confidence is not something you build from nothing. It is already in there being ignored, and this is repeated uncovering rather than construction.

Then use the three lines at the door. Hand on your heart, before you walk into the room you did not want to walk into.

Questions people ask

What if I do not believe the affirmations?

Say them and picture the mirror while you do. You are not being asked to convince yourself in one sitting. You are being asked to notice that version of you exists.

Is this pretending?

No. The confident one in the mirror is you, not an invention. Ask yourself when you last handled something well and you will find the evidence.

How long before it makes a difference?

A few days of doing it. What you notice is not a feeling in the meditation but how you carry yourself later in the day.

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The transcript

It follows the audio. Press any line to jump there.

morning · confidence · self-worth · affirmations

Read the transcript

Welcome to your morning meditation for confidence and self-belief.

As we begin, find a comfortable seated position, whether on a chair or a cushion, it's totally up to you.

And just allow your body to relax and become aware of your breath.

And when you're ready, you can gently close your eyes or just soften your gaze to a few feet in

front of you.

And we'll take a moment just to acknowledge that this is a start of a new day. A fresh canvas

where you have the power to paint your own story.

And as you're aware of your breath, you don't need to do anything with your breath.

Just breathing calm Breathe out, relax.

Your body knows how to breathe.

Just the same as your body knows how to relax. It's

a matter of just giving it permission.

Time to relax.

Time to be calm.

Time to be still in this moment.

And this is a wonderful meditation that... Gives us the confidence and self-belief to take through the day with us.

Whatever we're facing today, it might be work or it might be a busy day with family, whatever it is,

we can visualize ourselves with

a little confidence and more self-belief. And

if we do this meditation five or six days in a row, maybe slightly more, totally up to you.

And just feel it seep into every part of your life.

You have the confidence and self-belief within you. It's just growing it and untapping it.

So start by bringing your attention to your natural breath.

Feel the air as it enters and leaves your body.

And as we're opening our awareness of the current space and the current moment, there's no need

to change your breath. There's no need to do anything with your body. Just allowing it to do what it

does.

Your body knows best

as you sit in awareness, feel the weight of your body grounding you.

Feel the connection to the earth below you.

With each breath, sense a wave of relaxation washing down from your head to your toes.

You may even notice the sounds around you getting quieter.

Now in this state of just being and very relaxed, let's start building your inner confidence.

Visualize yourself standing in front of a large mirror.

And in this reflection, see yourself not just as you, but as a confident version of you.

Self-assured person. The person you are becoming. The

person you need to be.

Notice your posture.

Notice how your eyes reflect the self-belief.

And there's a slight smile of contentment maybe on your face.

Of how proud you are of yourself.

And as you're holding this image, repeat these affirmations. Silently or out loud. It really doesn't matter.

But

you've got to really believe it. And what does it look like? What does it feel like? What does it

look like from the outside? And what does it feel like from within? And

the first one is, I am capable and strong.

I am capable and strong.

I believe in my abilities and decisions.

I believe in my abilities and decisions.

I am worthy of respect and acceptance.

I am worthy of respect and acceptance.

Challenges are opportunities for growth.

Challenges are opportunities for growth.

I believe in myself and I am a positive force in my life and in the lives of others around

me.

I believe in myself. I am a positive force in my life and for the lives around me.

And if you bring your awareness back to your breath, back

to your relaxed body,

as you're breathing in calm even out relaxed,

Just imagine breathing in confidence.

And as you breathe in confidence, breathe out anything that's holding you back.

And notice how calm the outside world is. Notice how calm the place you're in is.

Notice how calm your mind is.

And notice how much your heart and your body feels confident and feels ready for the day ahead.

And as we near the end of this meditation, let's really anchor and nail down these affirmations.

And you can do it on the in-breath. It really helps to really instill it within your body.

May I be confident.

May I trust in myself.

May I embrace the day with positivity.

May I be confident.

May I trust in myself.

May I embrace the day with positivity.

And at any point today you can return to any of those three affirmations. Just

before you step into the room or go to where you might feel sometimes you lack that confidence, just

put your hand on your heart and go, may I be confident. May I trust myself.

And let the words really be your shield and strength as you step into the day.

Now gently bring your awareness back to the room.

Wiggle your fingers and wiggle your toes. Wiggle your arms and stretch out and

just recognise that feeling of being ready. Gently open your eyes and as you carry this feeling of

confidence and self-belief with you, remember you are equipped with all you need to face a day.

Wishing you a wonderful day ahead. I'm Steven Webb and this is one of the meditations from the podcast Inner

Peace Meditations. Thank you for your support and I really do wish you more confidence and more self-belief

for whatever you're facing today. If you want to listen to my other podcast or support this podcast,

just click the links in the notes below. Take care.

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