Meditation 26 · 20 June 2023 · 4:12

3 Minutes Peaceful Pause: When you need calmness fast!

No time for a retreat, a cave, or twenty minutes on a cushion. Four minutes, wherever you are standing right now.

Subject: Quick Calm

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Inner Peace Meditations · Meditation 26

Length4:12
SubjectQuick Calm
Best timeRight now, when it has all gone up a notch
PositionWherever you are standing or sitting
StyleOne line, followed all the way through. Music underneath

No time for a retreat, a cave, or twenty minutes on a cushion. Four minutes, wherever you are standing right now.

About 4 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice.

Shake out your arms, let the body drop, and follow one line all the way through: breathing in calm, breathing out relax. A thought turns up, you do nothing with it. A noise turns up, you do nothing with that either. That is the whole practice, and it is the bit you can take back out into the day.

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Thank you for sitting with me.

Steven

Who this is for

You need to be calmer in the next four minutes, not after a retreat.

No cave, no cushion, no half hour. This is the one to keep near the top of your list for the moments when something has just landed and you have to carry on regardless.

What happens in this meditation

Shake your arms out and let them drop. Hands on your legs. Eyes closed, or a soft gaze a few feet ahead.

Then one line, followed the whole way. Breathing in calm, breathing out relax.

Then an invitation down through the body. Shoulders, arms, neck, face, torso, legs. Not forcing anything, just letting it, because it already knows how.

Then the part that matters. A thought turns up and you do nothing with it. A noise turns up and you do nothing with that either. A feeling comes and you leave it alone.

How to get the most from it

Four minutes. Use it at the point where you would normally push on and hope.

It works standing in a corridor, in a parked car, in a bathroom with the door shut. Nothing in it needs the room to cooperate.

Take the last part out with you. Eyes open, walking about, still not having to do anything with what arrives. That is the piece you can actually use all day.

Questions people ask

Is four minutes enough to do anything?

For this, yes. You are not trying to fix the day, you are putting a gap in it. A short gap taken at the right moment beats a long one you never get round to.

Can I do this with my eyes open?

Yes, with your gaze soft and low. Slightly less settling, and far better than nothing.

What if my mind will not stop?

It is not supposed to. Every time you notice a thought and leave it where it is, the practice worked. That is the whole exercise, not the thing getting in its way.

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The transcript

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quick · stress · breath

Read the transcript

Sometimes in this really crazy, busy world, we need to relax quickly. And we don't have a long time to

sit in a cave or go on retreat and meditate for 10, 20, 30 minutes. But we do need to

quieten the mind and quieten the body. And we just need that moment of calmness. And that's what this meditation

is for. To have a moment of calmness when we need it most. So we start off just simply

relaxing the body and we do this by allowing the body to relax. So you can do this with me

now.

So shake out your arms and just allow them to sit down next to you. Maybe place your hands on

your legs.

Gently allow your eyes to close or just soften your gaze a few feet in front of you.

And become aware of your breath.

Just breathing in calm, Breathing out relax.

And now we'll invite our bodies to relax the same time.

Allow your shoulders to relax. Allow

your arms to relax.

Allow your neck and your face and the top of your head.

Allow your torso and your legs to relax.

Your body knows how to relax just as it knows how to breathe.

We don't need to interfere. We don't need to force it in any way. And

this moment just becomes calmer.

And you may notice the way the mind goes quieter.

You may notice the way the body knows how to relax.

Notice you don't have to do anything with this moment.

If a thought comes into your mind, you can just smile and you don't have to do anything with it.

If

you hear any noise, you don't have to do anything with it. If any feelings come up, you don't have

to do anything with them.

How wonderful it is just to be able to sit here and you don't have to do anything with it.

And you can carry this feeling with you throughout the day. And remember that whatever comes up, even if we're

awake and we've got our eyes open and we're focused and paying attention, you don't have to do anything with

everything that arises. We can choose what to do with each given moment. We can choose what to do with

each emotion and with each thought. So

if you gently open your eyes, shake out your arms and just carry this wisdom with you throughout the day.

I'm Steven Webb and my other podcast, Stillness in the Storms, will help you to see life a little bit

different, give you a little more calm and peace in your life. And if you may benefit from the five

simple practices for inner peace, head over to thankyousteven.com. There's also a link to my other podcast.

Have a wonderful day. And remember the wisdom You don't have to do anything with it when it arises.

Take care.

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